when we were born, we were born into a world where our lives can’t and simply will not be satisfied. a seed was already planted in our consciousness. a seed of irony that contradicts what psychological truths we feel. in our lives we grow up learning from ourselves and others that love is something good, something wonderful, but the fallacy in this is that love is something that is also awful. it’s so awful that it is given a different word when it reaches a certain state of awfulness. that stage is called HATE. this is a paradox in itself. it's a natural paradox that is imprinted in our minds. as we develop emotions, we then develop this contradiction of feelings. you cannot have hate without first love. if you admire someone or have a distant affection for someone, whether it be a friend, family member, or lover, you are already in a level of love for that person. once that person you have a certain level of love for does, gets, doesn’t do, or doesn’t get something that you do or don’t want, you inevitably develop hate for that person.
i don’t mean to go any further with the paradox of love and hate and how they drive one another into opposite ends of the pole. what im trying to express is that in our lives, our consciousness developed a world where nothing can be a certain way without the eventuality of having something bad occur, or not necessarily bad but something that is of the complete opposite. ok, to further grasp this philosophy, think of how the word hole and whole sound the same and almost are even spelled the same but with one letter exception. whole pertains to something that is complete or without a void. like in life, if you feel someone completes your soul, you then feel “whole”. now the word hole pertains to the notion that something, an idea or object, exists with a piece missing, or is made up entirely while having a void. for instance, if you had someone in your life and it was great but something undesirable happened, and that person will never be alongside you ever again, you then start to feel empty inside as if there is a "hole" in your soul.
our minds developed such contradictions in our lives naturally. thus, in life it is natural to feel great and then all of a sudden feel terrible. the only problem i have with this is why would mankind develop such complete opposites of one another? was it because the mind of man when it was first developing too insufficient to account for emotions, so his or her body mistaken things and ideas and ended up creating mindsets that were of the opposite?
there is simply something you must understand at a younger age. you will not ever be entirely happy, happy for long or forever. it is imperative the youth of mankind understands this idea. if it is understood much earlier in life, then mankind will be prepared that in life’s treats, there are some treats that become spoiled or will not be a treat for long.
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